I’ve never given up. I never will. I’ve been driven by my heart and passion my entire life, but those powers forever remain if your heart is open. I’ve always believed this. “Be true to thyself” my dad always said. I know he read that somewhere, but it’s a solid piece of advice.
I now know real love is achievable at this point in my life. It’s not the prettiest girl you can close, or the youngest girl, or anything like that. You can find it in a stranger and connect with her in a way that’s beyond the traditional structures you’ve been taught. Love is all around you.
Just keep going.
Learn from your mistakes. Be a better and more patient man. Mind your manners and always be giving and romantic. That never gets old.
She’s out there for you and I hope everyone reading this finds their him or her.
I’d love to hold onto this lady forever.
My Mother once said, ‘you never know, life is a dice roll’. She was probably talking about her marriage with my dad but that is a blog post for later.
But for now I will bask in the sunlight of this lovely relationship. She really seems perfect for me, but you never know. This is a dating blog. I started this journey dating women and striking out. Babe Ruth struck out all the time. But we know that story. Michael Jordan practiced non stop and did free throws and struggled for years.
But he kept at it.
Don’t give up. Keep your heart open. Too many people close their eyes and heart and become bitter. Stay positive. Keep loving the little things in life your health and your family and all of the good things in your life.
An open heart is a new day. Every day is a new opportunity to meet someone. Don’t obsess about it.
If you meet someone be cautious but real.
“We always want that which retreats from us.” – The Tao of Steve
You can do it.
I could go down in flames in the next year and this could be over. I’ll have lost again for the fourth time in a row!
But you have to evolve and put yourself out there because you never know. Swipe right, be cautious and have fun. Don’t push to hard. You’ll know when you meet a good one.
The universe will unfold as it should for us all.
Don’t be bitter on your past relationships and don’t carry that crap around with you. Clear your mind. If you don’t it’s just you drinking the poison hoping the other person dies.
And that is a waste of time.
The cage you’re in right now is of your own making. Drop the bars and walk the fuck out and go meet somebody. It can be done. I’m living proof of that.
There are so many people out there that would LOVE to meet you. You’re not great, you’re just human. We are a social species, so go out there and make it happen.
Cherie has come along and pulled me from the cold black river named Annabelle.
(See: Annabelle – Guy walks into a bar – 2013 to 2014)
Falling in real love is like being in a raging sea and washing up on a warm sunny beach with a drink in your hand and a lovely girl next to you. She always assures you she loves you more than you love her. No one ever reveals that. Most don’t know where they stand in a relationship, but she does. She’s happy in her role. you can’t believe your fortune or the reveal. You have the power to squander or embrace.
You go in for the sweet hug.
I’d love to go on more about this but I have to go bang my girlfriend back to the Stone Age.
I’m so glad I installed air bags in the headboard of my bed.
Love you all for still following and not turning the hose on us.
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