That is like dealing with care, with the difficult parts of someone, who is already broken. The broken pieces have to be mended and always bear the label, ‘handle with care’. Not to be taken with negligence or granted, a relationship with someone having a mental illness is a challenge at some point. You want the person to be as happy, because you love them, but are also sometimes shattered because they fail to stand tall in times of your emotional needs.
Mental illness refers to disorders relating to anxiety, depression, diet, compulsion and so on. Although curable, they are not easy to overcome. Have a look as we discuss how is it to date someone fighting with a mental disorder.
Cancellation of plans is very frequent.
Due to mood swings, they are not sure of what do they exactly desire at the moment. Thus, there are chances that you may be sacked for the plan, impromptu.
It feels like a swing of emotions, when height brings delight and any low, simply seems a bore, but a torture, here.
What It Is Like Dating Someone with a Mental Illness
And you are left figuring out what wrong you have done. While, all this time, you were helping them heal.
Mental illness often encounters diverse emotions, and thus, rules set in the relationship are tweaked due to the mental state.
Communication often turns out to be a problem, because you have to think, A LOT, before speaking anything.
A real problem, but can be gradually resolved with deeper understanding.
Instead of always trying to heal them yourself, stand tall with them in their difficult time, be their strength and they will fix themselves for you. They have their issues to face, thus, simply being the shoulder to cry on helps immensely.
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