12 Questions to Ask Your Crush to Subtly Flirt with Them

Flirting with your crush is important when it comes to sparking up a new relationship. Make sure you’re doing it right by asking these questions.

When it comes to your crush, you always want to find a way to let them know you’re interested… without overkill. I’ve seen this so many times, and honestly, it’s never easy to watch. A lot of times, people think that flirting should be straight-forward so the “flirtee” gets the hint.

However, finding a connection with someone you’re interested in can be much easier when you do it in a subtle manner. By making a point to ask them questions and get to know them, you’re pointing out how much you like them, but you’re not flirting so much that they feel trapped.

Flirting should always be subtle and easy. Someone once told me that the best way to flirt with someone is to leave them wondering if you’re flirting.

Questions that will light the fire within your crush

Some of the best questions to ask your newly found crush are ones that help you get to know them and draw attention to their personal life. These 40 questions will plant the idea that you’re interested and help you find out more about them, their interests, and their personal tastes. [Read: 9 quick ways to know if your crush isn’t into you]

#1 Have you been working out?

#2 What are you looking for in a girl/guy?

#3 How can someone like you not have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

#4 How did you get so attractive?

#5 How are you so good at _______?

#6 What would be your ideal date?

#7 Why are you so funny? [Read: 40 unbelievably cute things you can say to your crush]

#8 What did you first think of me?

#9 What’s the most romantic date you’ve ever been on?

#10 Who’s your celebrity crush?

#11 Who do you think should make the first move? Guys or girls?

#12 What do you wear to bed—if anything?


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