He may be busy, but he could be showing signs of falling in love.
Asking yourself, ‘Does he love me?’ Learning how to tell if a guy likes you and is falling in love can be very difficult, especially if he’s always on the go.
When you’re seeing a man who is super busy, there are 10 behaviors to look for that let you know he really does care.
You’ve been seeing this guy for several months and things are going really well. You enjoy his company and “get” each other. There are times when it’s absolutely undeniable he is in love with you and cares deeply.
However, there are other times that make you question everything. When your man gets extremely busy, you can end up wondering where you stand. That is such an uncomfortable place to be. It’s hard to deal with his schedule and you wish things were clearer.
Rather than continuing to feel uncertain and worry, you can watch for the signs that let you know for sure he’s in love with you.
Once you notice several of these behaviors, you can take a deep breath and relax for a while until that super busy time passes and he’s back to his normal wonderful self.
The good news is that the behaviors I”m about to reveal are pretty good indicators that he’s serious about you and wants to keep you in his life.
With so much out there that helps you figure out when a man is not into you, this is like a breath of fresh and positive air!
Here’s how to tell if a guy likes you and is falling in love:
1. He stays in touch
Even when he’s crazy busy, he doesn’t skip his usual call or makes sure to keep in touch. He asks how you are doing too, vs. just updating you about his world. This shows he really does care because he wants to know about your life. That’s always a good sign he’s in love with you.
2. He seeks out your opinion
Your man wants to know what you think and seeks out your advice or ideas. Now you know he respects your opinion which is big. He wouldn’t ask if you didn’t offer something helpful or wise and you contribute to his decision-making process. Most men who do this are in the relationship for the long haul.
3. He likes to make you happy
He’s one of those men that picks up little gifts that let you know he’s thinking about you. He’ll remember a song you like or your favorite pasta dish. That thoughtfulness puts a smile on your face and certainly reveals he is thinking about you, even when he’s not around.
4. He respects you and treats you well
No matter what, your man always shows you respect and treats you like a lady. Even if he doesn’t have time to listen to all the details of a story, he apologizes for cutting you short and promises to make it up to you. And he does! You’ve never been treated so well and it feels incredibly good. That’s another way you know he’s really in love with you.
5. He really listens to you
When you have something important to say, about your job, family or friends, or about your relationship, he really listens.
He stops what he’s doing or sets aside time to give you his full attention. This makes you feel heard and understood, something you may not have found in your previous relationships. This is the sign of a good communicator and a caring man with a high emotional IQ.
6. He supports your dreams
You have a few serious dreams – things that matter to you in the big picture of your life. And you are working towards making these goals come true. Thankfully, you have a man by your side who fully supports your dreams.
He has suggestions, but holds back from telling you what to do. And each time you finish a good size chunk, he congratulates you and says how proud he is. Now that’s a good man!
7. He makes you a priority
When your man has been nose-to-the-grindstone at work or away, as soon as he is done or returns, you are one of his top priorities. He doesn’t put his buddies or others before you at times like this because you are the one who makes the biggest difference in his life.
He wants to spend time together since he’s happy when with you. No matter how busy he gets, he finds time for you which is how you know he’s really in love with you.
8. He loves you even when you’re not your best
One way to know he really loves you is how he reacts when you are not at your best. Anyone can have a bad day and your guy understands that. He doesn’t flip out or walk away. He stays and works things out. He tells you everything will be OK which is so comforting. This is when you really appreciate him and know he’s a keeper.
9. He helps you when it’s not convenient
This amazing man is willing to help you whenever you need it. Not when it’s convenient for him or when he can squeeze you in somewhere down the road. He actually goes out of his way to make sure you have what you need, because he’s really in love with you. This is something you value about him like no other man.
10. He’s part of your life and you’re part of his
Your beau joins you at your family gatherings and you go with his family as well. That’s a big sign that you are “in” and he’s so in love with you.
When he starts introducing you to his closest friends and family, you are crossing into a new and more intimate phase of relationship. Moving into exclusivity is often the step right before he starts including you in his every day life.
Now you know at least 10 signs that the man you’re seeing is deeply in love with you. These behaviors are not things men who don’t care will get involved in.
It takes a certain kind of man who has strong feelings for a woman before you’ll notice many of these signs. Once you see them, know without question that he’s crazy about you. And I’m quite sure you deserve it!
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