What It’s Like to Be a Cam Girl When Everyone’s Self-Isolating

“I do a lot more wellness check-ins in between nudes.”

Model Indi Rossi has noticed a shift in tone during her private shows on ImLive.

“Before coronavirus, guys would gush about how hard they came during my show, but now their orgasms seem to be less intense,” she says. Instead, she’s finding more men just want to vent about their lives amid self-isolation during the coronavirus pandemic.

As COVID-19 spreads across the globe, cam girls say business is booming. Their customers don’t just want sexual release; they’re also alone, depressed from being laid off, craving social interaction, and anxious about the state of the world. Porn doesn’t offer that, but cam sites do.

On cam sites, users can log on and watch models perform live via webcam (hence the name “cam site”). Features vary slightly from site to site, but most have options to chat with cam girls via messenger and tip them if they’re doing something you like. Customers can also pay for one-on-one sessions with their favorite models.

“There’s not a doubt in my mind that a huge percentage [of viewership] is from social distancing,” says a model who goes by The_MILF_Becca. “People are bored, nervous, lonely, you name it. They are looking for distraction and entertainment. Enter cam models.”

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The_MILF_Becca (link NSFW), 30, says she’s seeing about three to five new clients per shift and about an 11% increase in revenue per hour. “What I didn’t expect were the number of old members who I haven’t heard from in years,” she says.

Since the spread of coronavirus, model Indi Rossi, 23, has noticed “quite a few names” on her ImLive channel that are unfamiliar. “I think social distancing is definitely affecting my business [positively],” she says.


Model HottyTeen69 isn’t seeing as many new clients, but she’s noticed that a lot of her regular clients are noticeably spending many more hours online. She reports an increase of around 40-50% in earnings. “Of course people are turning online due to social distancing,” she says. “I’ve connected with a lot of new members who stay online for many hours because they feel alone, which is a natural effect stemming from isolation.”

Cam models say they’re seeing more business at all hours of the day, and from many places across the globe. HarperMadi, 25, who models on MyFreeCams, has noticed a huge rise in business from states that have set laws closing down gyms, nightlife, restaurants, and bars. However, as more states adopt stricter and similar “lockdown” regulations, there may be less of a difference in viewership by state.

“I’ve been taking more shows with people who just want to commiserate about the situation.”

Coronavirus has also changed how these models interact with their fans. While it was common before coronavirus for clients to take a private show with Rossi “just to talk about life,” there’s been even more of that since the pandemic.

“I’ve been taking more shows with people who just want to commiserate about the situation,” she says. These men aren’t seeking sexual stimulation as much as a shoulder to cry on. They’ve lost their jobs, they’re bored, they’re lonely, and they need someone, explains Rossi.

One of the most noticeable changes Rossi’s seen is that people ask if she’s feeling okay. When she ends a private show, both she and her client will tell each other to stay safe. “Our pleasantries are different than normal,” she says.

HarperMadi will ask if everyone has food, if they’ve been laid off, how they’re taking everything, and so on. “They worry a lot about me and will check on me throughout the day on social media to make sure I’m okay,” she adds.

The_MILF_Becca, really sums it: “I do a lot more wellness check-ins in between nudes.”

There’s a sense of solidarity among the viewers, too. That’s why The_MILF_Becca says her style of cam show has “completely changed.” She now does a lot more goal-oriented shows, encouraging everyone in the channel to work together. (Example: If you all tip me 1,000 tokens, I’ll take off my top.)

She says it fosters a sense of community.


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5 Ways To Attract True Love Into Your Life (Starting Today!)

Are you attracting love the right way?

There is plenty of dating advice out there but if you want to specifically know how to find love and attract a potential relationship in your life, you need to know if you’re doing the right thing.

Ask yourself: are your actions attracting love or blocking it from your life?

The Law of Attraction states that we all have “the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on.” So, if you’re attracted to a person and want them to feel the same way, you can.

However, finding love requires some inner work.

Here are 5 important ways to find and attract love.

1. Love yourself

This may seem cliche but it is so important when you’re dating and looking for love. If you don’t love yourself or are always putting yourself down, you will only attract those who won’t truly love you and who will also put you down.

How you treat yourself will be directly reflected in who you attract to you. Learn to admire yourself and be confident! Be in love with yourself!

Don’t compare yourself to others — love your amazing qualities! Confidence attracts love. Think about it, do you want someone who is insecure and down on themselves all the time? No, you want someone who is confident! If you aren’t confident in yourself, no one else can be either!

Work through any insecurities you have and know that you are exactly who you should be. Love is attracted to fun and confident. Let down the walls you have built up, love yourself, and have some fun!

2. Don’t be overly focused on finding love

Unfortunately, love only comes when you least expect it and aren’t really looking for it. When you are desperately looking for love, an energy of desperation comes through and that can never attract love.

Focus on finding happiness within you first and put your energy into that instead. Happiness can only be found within yourself.

3. Let go of the past

You cannot be holding on to an ex or stuck in the past and expect to also move forward with love. So really look back and be sure you have fully moved forward. Work through and close any past chapters so you can be free to move forward.

You can never move forward if part of you is still stuck in the past. Look into all areas of your past, not just relationships.

Are there emotions you haven’t dealt with and things you haven’t faced yet? Really focus on settling those things so you can free yourself up for love!

Holding onto the past only takes up the space where love goes. Empty that space so you are really ready for love!

4. Express your true self

Be yourself! Let your true self free! Hiding or being secretive can never attract true love. That only attracts more secretiveness and attracts those who can’t be attracted to your true self which always ends badly.

Always speak up and say how you feel, never push anything under the rug or ignore any red flags. You must be your authentic self to attract authentic love.

5. Don’t ever look for someone to save you

Don’t ever go into a relationship thinking you need to be saved. To really find love, you need to be whole in yourself first then love is the cherry on top.

Looking for someone to save you will only turn into an unbalanced and unhealthy relationship. Remember only you can save yourself no one else can do that for you.

These dating tips may sound simple but they require your full attention and effort. And when you’ve done them, you’re finally ready to love and attract the right person to your life.


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9 Reasons To Never Chase After A Guy – No Exceptions

Chase after your dreams instead.

So, you find yourself having a crush. It makes you as crazy as it does happy. One moment you think all hope is lost, and then there’s that one text message that means it’s back on. You scheme and you plot (because we all do it) on how to play the game.

You vent about hating the game, but we all know that if we were truly as forward as we’d like to be, it would seem far crazier than our hidden agendas.

So, we pretend and we over-analyze everything. Absolutely everything. From punctuation marks to the time it takes to respond, it all means something to us when, in all likelihood, it meant nothing at all.

Instead of religiously following dating advice and seeking out love, here’s why you should absolutely stop chasing your crush and focus on more important things in life..

1. Chasing someone that isn’t pursuing you gets you nowhere except running circles around your own heart.

When you meet the right person, you won’t need to run after them, because you’ll both want to walk together the moment you see eye-to-eye. Your worlds will change and the only direction left to go will be forward.

Otherwise, you wind up wasting time conspiring on how to make someone fall in love with you.

2. You start to forget about the people who aren’t in your life just temporarily.

You miss out on treasured memories with your friends and family while trying to force forgettable memories with infatuation.

3. You offer your heart to someone who doesn’t deserve you.

The one who does will woo you, court you and kill to be with you, because what would life be without you?

4. You waste your energy on something that’s fleeting.

In its place, you should spend your time focusing on your date with destiny, rather than your date with the flavor of the week.

5. You start to forget the things that were and are important to you.

You dreamed of something different and hoped for something better, but you’re settling for 2 AM phone calls.

6. You make yourself insane.

That iPhone text bubble is your worst nightmare, as well as your best friend. You think you’re playing the game, but they’re just playing with your heart.

7. You’re chasing a human being instead of just letting life happen.

Stop analyzing every drunken text message and let fate takeover. Let the real moment come that needs no explanation because it is the explanation.

8. Having a crush can be fun, but it can also be straight-up exhausting.

Every time your phone goes off, you’re praying that it’s them. When it is, you get that goofy look on your face that won’t go away.

9. When it isn’t, you sulk for an hour and read articles like this.

Then, when time goes on and there’s no text and you were the last one to say something, it’s literally torture to know you cannot/should not/society says do not send a second text to an unanswered one.

But you do anyway. It probably fails and you go back to sulking until they like your Instagram picture — then it’s back on again.

The fact of the matter is, you shouldn’t chase after someone’s heart. You shouldn’t have to chase a person. Stop chasing butterflies and start chasing your ambitions.

Chase your promotion. Chase your bucket list. Chase your dreams. Chase the sunrise. Chase your friends in flag football. Chase the spring. Chase the winter. Chase laughter. Chase the vodka with tonic. Chase memories.

Stop chasing love, and let love find you.


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