Reasons Why You Can’t Find a Decent Girlfriend

Let’s say you’re a good guy who knows his way around women. But for some reason, dating doesn’t go too well for you. Maybe you have it all: good looks, charisma, a nice job, and the natural ability to be a gentleman. And still, pretty single girls seem to flee from you. There are several reasons why this happens. And not everything is your fault here.

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Let’s say you’re a good guy who knows his way around women. But for some reason, dating doesn’t go too well for you. Maybe you have it all: good looks, charisma, a nice job, and the natural ability to be a gentleman. And still, pretty single girls seem to flee from you. There are several reasons why this happens. And not everything is your fault here.

1. You seek for girls in wrong places

I doubt that a woman who wants serious commitment will go to a club to find a husband. The same goes for Tinder and similar apps. Yes, of course, there are some rare cases when people just happen to be in a certain location, for example, with friends. But you still need to change the tactics and start finding people in places you like to be in. For example, why don’t you meet girls at theme parties, festivals, or friends meetings?

2. You come across as too serious

Maybe you are aimed for a serious relationship, marriage, and kids, but there is no need to share it during your first date (especially if you don’t know each other that well). Don’t be that desperate and clingy. Don’t take it too fast. First, you need to get to know each other, then you can think about starting a family. Girls are scared of guys who want to get married on a first date and talk about kids. Paradoxically, but not only guys are afraid of commitment.

3. You seem stuck up

Maybe you are so serious and self-conscious that you want to compensate it by looking tough and snappy. But all people see is you being conceited. One thing is knowing your coolness, but projecting it on other people by intimidating them is another thing. Make sure you don’t come across as too self-absorbed, try to be simpler.

4. You seem too perfect

Girls can be scared of you by proximity. When you look and act perfectly, they can be intimidated. Girls are just scared you will reveal all of their insecurities, and after all, you’ll break up. They want to start a relationship as equal players and see a normal human being with mild flaws. If you look unattainable she will feel unworthy of this relationship and back down.

5. Your career is less bright

Yes, these are the small things that don’t matter that much. But still, some women want a man to be the main breadwinner, staying by the side and not taking so much responsibility. This works both ways because often guys don’t like girls who are too successful.

6. You have a type

Don’t you have a feeling all of your exes are somewhat similar? Maybe they behave or look the same? If the answer is positive than I know what is your problem. You just have a type. It’s neither good nor bad. You’ll just be stuck in a neverending circle of patterns that won’t leave you for years until you decide to break it and find an unexpected type. Try to date a woman who isn’t your cup of tea. Maybe you didn’t pay attention or were too scared to approach this type of girl? It’s a chance to take a risk.

7. You don’t know how to talk to women

Maybe you are rich, successful, and handsome, but just don’t know how to approach a girl you like. You don’t know how to make a woman interested, how to behave during a date, which courtesy moves to choose, what to tell her, what gifts to give. And, most importantly, maybe you don’t know when it’s time to stop talking.

8. You haven’t found your destiny

Yes, maybe you just haven’t found a girl who’s meant for you. I believe that we all have a soul mate in this life, waiting for us. Maybe the Universe tries to keep you away from mistakes and wrong relationships, saving that dessert for last. Anyway, it’s worth waiting for it.

 

 

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JUST DESSERTS Woman Finds Out Husband Is Having An Affair After Restaurant Critic’s Review Features An Image Of Him On A Date

Unless it is essential to know a partner’s sex, why bother?

A RESTAURANT critic appears to have unwittingly exposed an unfaithful husband after his wife read a review and recognized him in an accompanying photograph.

The wife took to the comments to thank food critic Tom Sietsema – who works for Washington Post – for exposing her husband’s cheating.

The husband was caught out after he appeared in a photo alongside the review

The husband was caught out after he appeared in a photo alongside the reviewCredit: Getty – Contributor

“Well Tom your latest review is accompanied by a picture of my husband dining with a woman who isn’t me!” she wrote on Tom’s column.

“Once confronted with photographic evidence, he confessed to having an ongoing affair.

“Just thought you’d be amused to hear of your part in the drama. This Thanksgiving I’m grateful to you for exposing a cheat!”

Tom appeared to be horrified at the comment and replied to say he hoped it was a “crank” post.

The woman left a comment on the review

“Please, please, please tell me this is a crank post,” he wrote.

“I’d hate to learn otherwise. I file two reviews a week, for Food and the Magazine, so I’m not sure which restaurant this is.”

Tom later shared the comment on his own Twitter account, explaining: “So, this popped up on my live online food chat today. Cheaters, take heed!”

Tom Sietsema

@tomsietsema

So, this popped up on my live online food chat today. Cheaters, take heed!

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Others were utterly shocked, with one writing: “Does this mean the cheating husband is finally having his just desserts? Sorry, I couldn’t resist.”

While another said: “A former colleague of mine got similarly caught out.

“His wife was flicking through a holiday brochure and was stunned to see a pic of her husband poolside at an upscale Spanish resort with another woman. They divorced soon after.”

 

7 Dating Sites For Married People (Seriously)

As unbelievable as it may sound, it’s real.

A study led by John Cacioppo of the University of Chicago’s Department of Psychology found that “More than one third of U.S. marriages begin with online dating, and those couples may be slightly happier than couples who meet through other means.”

But there’s a darker flip side to online dating sites and popular apps like Tinder and Bumble — specifically, “married dating” sites, where cheating spouses-to-be can search for a willing partner in infidelity on the down-low.

Husbands and wives may vow to be there for each other, forsaking all others through sickness and health, until death do them part, but statistics show married men and women alike are cheating more frequently now than ever before. And naturally, online dating platforms are well aware of this fact.

While we can’t blame the online dating sites for creating this dilemma, the fact that there’s actually a decent market for dating sites dedicated to married people wanting to have affairs baffles me a little. Why even get married if you’re just going to be cruising around the dark online world of married dating sites?

Cheating is never OK, and IMO, this seems a little too far out the box, even for a social-media based society. But as unbelievable as it may sound, it’s real.

Ashley Madison isn’t the only site where you can get your cheating on, as evidenced by the following list of successful dating sites for married people.

That’s why we rounded them all up for you — because we’re helpful like that.

Here are 7 dating sites for married people that you’d have to see to believe:

1. Marital Affairs

Marital Affairs promises discretion and even gives some pointers for how to get the most effective results out of your affair.

Summary from the site itself: “Dating a married man or woman can be a dangerous and risky affair, but with us? Privacy is king. If you are looking for a secure form of adult dating then married dating with MA could be ideal. Just sign up and the risk and danger is limited to pleasurable amounts that come with the fast paced and sexy world or married dating.”

Wow.

2. Married Secrets

Married Secrets looks pretty tacky, but I don’t imagine that anyone browsing on this site would really care.

Summary from the site itself: “If you’re married, but looking, Married secrets can help you find discreet married affairs that you take as far as you want, whether just a little flirting, a passionate encounter, romantic married affairs, married dating or affectionate companionship.”

3. Victoria Milan

Simple and to the point, Victoria Milan offers some pretty snazzy features — one being the ‘panic button’ (and yes, it’s exactly what it sounds like).

Summary from the site itself: “We show you other members near you, setting you up for those delicious, spontaneous, casual encounters.”

4. Hush Affairs

While the name Hush Affair says it all, the motto says so much more: “Your desires are our secrets.”

Summary from the site itself: “Friendship and even innocent flirt [sic] are just the beginning of the unforgettable experience our site will offer you. Here, you can find yourself a Partner of your dreams! Once you complete your profile, our unique system to assess mutual compatibility guarantees the best match for you.”

But as Pretty Little Liars taught us, secrets are never kept for long.

5. Illicit Encounters

Illicit Encounters is the largest online dating site in the UK. That says quite a lot, I think, and none of it good.

Summary from the site itself: “Warning: Not everyone is suited to having an affair. They are not an alternative to working on or ending a marriage. Not all affairs have a positive effect on a marriage. Some can be very damaging. Always consider other people and if you are going to have an affair, please select your partner wisely.”

The more you know …

6. Find New Passions

Find New Passions … Because the old one died and an affair is the solution, right? Of course it is!

Summary from the site itself: “Most of us have always wanted to have a few extra-marital affairs every now and then. You need a time out from your difficult, sexless or loveless marriage … Whether you are looking forward to indulging in exciting affairs with married men or women, keep it safe and confidential with Find New Passion. Are you married and looking? Ready to turn your fantasy into reality? Why not start with a married dating website that gives you a chance to reignite the spark of passion and feel alive again?”

7. Gleeden

Gleeden is the first extramarital site made by women only. And yes, they are very proud of that fact.

Summary from the site itself: “Whether you are looking for an affair in your area or a lover miles away from you while on a trip, Gleeden.com gives you a specific platform to safely get in touch with members worldwide! Let’s go! Gleeden.com is run daily by a 100% female team: women are empowered for ultra-discreet encounters!”

 

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