Being in a ‘friend with benefits’ relationship simply means two good friends who have casual sex without being committed or emotionally attached to each other. So many people are beginning to consider being in an FWB relationship since being in a relationship nowadays is becoming more complicated.
Now since you are currently reading this article, it means you’re probably thinking of being a friend with benefits with someone, well, this article is going to explain everything you need to know about an FWB relationship, the pros, the cons, and more.
Pros
It is less stressful:
Whenever you get that horny feeling, it feels good to have someone you like, whom you can call at any time to come fulfill your sexual needs without having to worry about feelings, and you guys can easily move on to other things without stress.
Explore your sexual fantasies:
Being in a friend with benefits relationship is a safe place to experiment and fulfil your sexual fantasies without being judged or getting all awkward. Your FWB partner might not like your wildest fantasies but you both can easily move on with no problems what so ever.
You are allowed to be ‘selfish’:
Since there are no commitments or emotions involved, you are free from being pressured to impress this person. You don’t owe your FWB partner anything and nothing is expected from you. You are free from thinking of what gifts to give, or what delicacy to make in other to keep your partner or how much time and attention you have to give, you’re free to put yourself first.
No Drama:
You can easily flirt with other people without having to worry about a jealous boyfriend/girlfriend going through your phone and summoning the god of thunder to strike you because you’re liking someone else. You are free from annoying arguments and you are not responsible for any heartbreak too, how sweet is that? No guilt, just freedom.
You get your needed space:
There are times when you just feel like being on your own it might be to clear your head or maybe you just need that alone time with yourself, if you are in a relationship, your lover might not understand and might think you are pushing them away, but in an FWB relationship, you don’t even have to ask because you guys only get to see when both of you agree on seeing.
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I know people who’ve done this, but I don’t think I could do it. I only had once relationship that I was able to walk away from where it didn’t bother me and we stayed friends until he moved away. Ironically, he was the most gorgeous guy I ever dated, a model type – body to match. I didn’t date pretty guys. My girls loved him and everything was perfect. We were instantly attracted to one another and got along beautifully but… I loved my religion first and there was a girl in Hawaii I knew he still had feelings for, so we parted. It was great while it lasted though.
Than you! Always a great story from you, Jolie! Have you thought of blogging some of these stories? Stay safe!
Some could be a bit racy, lol. Actually sharing them with you is enough. I do on occasion post things, but I still haven’t recovered from my sisters passing to give any of my stories justice and to be honest, if I did it would be under a pseudonym. Maybe. Thanks!