If He Doesn’t Do These 5 Things For You, Let Him Go

Sadly, the need for the latter is often mistaken as the more important one instead of the former.

But of course, that’s not how it should be.

It’s great to have a boyfriend but it is more important to have one who’s not just in your life for the fun of it.

So if you have one who doesn’t do any of the following five things, he’s no better than just an unnecessary piece of furniture on an already crowded surface. You really need to let him go.

1. Support you

If your boyfriend isn’t a believer in your abilities or in the things you do and spend most of your time and energy on, it’s grounds enough for him to be dumped. You need someone in your life who pushes you with his actions and encourages you with his words.

2. Respect you

Respect is far too important to take with a pinch of salt. So if yours is a man who needs to be taught the basic things about respect and he’s not even catching up, you’re free to let him go.

Every man who considers himself old enough to be in a relationship shouldn’t have to be taught how to respect and treat a woman right. If he fails on this front, every self-respecting woman knows better than to constantly battle for respect and fair treatment, especially from the man she calls her own!

3. Respect your family

His respect should not be limited to just you particularly when your relationship is marriage intended. He doesn’t need to love your parents and family members. That’s a demand too much to make of him. But of a necessity, he must respect them – every single one of them.

This is an unbendable rule. Don’t sell your folks and siblings cheap. Demand this at all times and let him go if he feels too big to comply.

4. Doesn’t let you express yourself

Refusal to communicate with you or allow you to express your thoughts, emotions, and feelings in a relationship is a grave offense that you really should not take lightly.

The operative word here is stonewalling, and where this is the order of the day, it’s difficult to imagine such a relationship growing or blossoming into anything magical or enviable.

If he’s closed off and habitually shuts down communication, it’s pointless trying to make things work with this guy. Let him go.

5. Doesn’t put in enough effort

If you have repeatedly tried to make him put in more effort into pleasing you sexually, treating you right, and other reasonable demands you may have, you need to let him go if he refuses to do just that.

 

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