Men would often claim that they’d rather avoid dating “psychos” or “crazy women.” But this is just a big fat lie as big as the “women want a sensitive, nice guy” lie…
Maybe we don’t want to desire the crazy woman or the bad boy because we’re aware that this will bring us only pain and frustration in the long run and yet we’re caught up in the same old pattern over and over again. The reason for this is that there are factors in our biology and psyche that unwillingly drive us towards desiring attributes our conscious selves would strongly discourage. In truth, it’s not “crazy” that we search for, but the side courses that go along with it.
For men who are into crazy women, there can be more than one reason.
1. They want to be heroes
Men love to fix situations and be heroes. It makes them feel appreciated, important and feeds their ego. And who is a better person to be saved than a poor, defenseless lunatic? What guys fail to understand here, however, is that fixer-uppers don’t normally turn out to be a smart investment. If you need something to fix, there are plenty of lonely, normal girls out there in need of renovation.
2. They want to feel needed
If a man has just come out of a relationship with someone who made him feel unneeded or ignored he is highly likely to get caught up with someone crazy. And while her moods, cries, and demands might be agitating, she will also make him feel needed. After being ignored and made to feel unnecessary in a loveless and devout of sexual adventure relationship for a long span of time, it can feel intoxicating for him to get caught up with an overly needy crazy woman. After years of emotional flatness, this new roller coaster feels like quite the thrill!
3. Crazy women are incredible in bed
Part of what defines a crazy woman is her lack of self-restraint. She’s impulsive and gives into pleasure and excitement, just like the man who desires her. And if that is how she acts in the bedroom, she will be all he ever wanted. A woman who is cautious will protect herself physically, sexually as well as emotionally from the unknown until she can be certain. A crazy woman, on the other hand, will immediately jump in and get caught in the moment. This can mean a lot of fun for the horny man eager to get his freak on.
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