How to Make the Laws of Attraction Work Every Time

How do you make the Law of Attraction work every time? The secret is to discover one’s unconscious thinking in relation to what one desires to create consciously. If the unconscious thinking is in opposition to one’s desires, amend the counterproductive thinking into something that will align with one’s conscious desires. These easy steps will guide you through the process.

Steps

Be aware of what you are feeling, and through that, what situation or expectations you are creating. The most important thing is to always know and be aware of how you are feeling. In simple terms, if you are feeling bad (sad, mad, angry, stressed), that will attract bad things (more sadness, more madness, more anger, and so on). In the same aspect, if you are feeling happy and good, it will bring more happiness and good things or situations. While it is definitely not easy to always be feeling good, you just have to remind yourself that whatever you’re feeling will become your reality.

Breathe in deeply. This enables you to connect to what you are creating. On the exhale, expand to create more room for the connection. Surrender to what you are currently creating. Let go.

Take responsibility for what you are creating. Own it. Use the phrase “I want to experience (place here what you are experiencing)” because on some level you do want to experience it or you wouldn’t be experiencing it.

Visualize what you want, it could be anything from money, relationships, better health, a good grade on your paper, a new job, etc. You need to truly visualize and picture yourself having what you want already. Feel what it is to have what you want. The most important thing to remember about visualizing is you do not need to understand or think about how these good things will come. You only need to think about already having them, the rest will fall into place; just wait and see!

Find acceptance. Drop judgment of what you are creating to realize it is simply a creation. Discharge the energy or judgment typically associated with things that you don’t want. These unwanted things have been called negative, wrong, or bad.

Become aware of any unconscious thoughts creating against what you want consciously. Go through the first four steps with each unconscious thought that is hidden and in conflict with your conscious desires.

Make peace with the inner conflict about the situation. Bring both sides of your thinking together. Harmonize your conscious and unconscious thinking. Let them both speak and feel. Indeed two parts of you can be in disagreement with each other. Come to a place of being okay with each of them and feel the resulting peace.

Recreate. With awareness, acceptance, and peace brought to all parts of you regarding a situation, you have the power to recreate the circumstance and with a higher probability of long-lasting success.

Be grateful and actually happy with your current situation. Find whatever bright side there is to your situation. Even little things, for example, You are late for an appointment and there is no parking, but suddenly someone pulls out of the first spot and it’s yours! While many will overlook that, it’s a great example of something to be thankful for beyond the obvious things of being healthy, having family around you, being able to keep a roof over your head, etc. What you are grateful for will vary from person to person. If you can continuously be grateful day after day and truly feel good even amid the negative things around you, you will prevail.

Some examples

  • Bills: Your bills are piling up and there’s no hope in sight. Picture all those bills disappearing and money coming in instead (remember you don’t and shouldn’t think about how it will come, just that it will come).
  • Job: If you absolutely hate your job and your boss is just terrible and you’re constantly bogged down with work, try this. Picture your dream job or situation, visualize it every day and believe it’s possible. Who knows––your boss could get transferred and you can receive a promotion, whatever you want to happen!
  • Happy relationship: You really want to be in a healthy and happy relationship but you are not optimistic because you have only had bad experiences. Use the law of attraction for love! Picture your perfect situation, your perfect partner, feel what it is to be in a great happy relationship. Really believe it exists, daydream if you will. You never know! Your next trip to the grocery store, to Starbucks, or anywhere else for that matter could lead you to bump into the person of your dreams.

 

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4 Tinder Messages That Are Huge Turnoffs

It can be really hard to know exactly what someone you’re talking to on Tinder is looking for. One person may find witty banter irresistible, another may prefer straightforward chats, and someone else could want a mix of both. It can make saying and doing the right thing feels like a science experiment. While everyone is going to continue to have different preferences — we are all unicorns, blah blah — there are a couple of universal truths to keep in mind when messaging a match. Don’t say we never did anything for you.

1. Hitting them with “what’s your IG?”

If someone wants you to have access to their Instagram, they’ll link their Instagram to their profile. By asking this question, you’re 1. assuming that they want you to follow them and 2. not giving them the option to say no in a non-awkward way. Their only options are to ghost you, give you their handle reluctantly, or have to send an uncomfortable message telling you no. None of these scenarios really lend themselves to starting off on the right foot.

2. Messaging “guess not, lol”

Enough with the passive aggressiveness, please. Digitally stomping your foot like a child when someone doesn’t answer you within whatever number of hours you deem too many might stall the conversation, will probably get you unmatched, and makes you look very unattractive (is that a crimped nose hair I see?). I understand that someone not answering you can be disconcerting and anxiety-provoking. But you have to remember that not everyone is on the same schedule as you, and just because you respond ASAP doesn’t mean everyone else can or has to. Also, someone not answering your last message may mean you said something offensive or made them uncomfortable. Before trying to make your match feel bad or like they should be answering (an unfair power play), check whether you were out of line.

3. Asking for personal information too fast

If you met someone at a bar, would you walk up to them and ask for their first name, last name, and phone number without chatting with them first? No, because that would be weird, and the person would run away. The great part about matching with someone is entering the getting-to-know-you stage and figuring out if you vibe. Yes, the goal is to eventually meet up, and if and when you establish a strong enough rapport to do so, you can start in with your questions (but please still avoid the third degree).

4. Giving TMI

Being super open isn’t necessarily a bad thing — it can definitely lead to some interesting conversations and foster stronger connections. But there’s a fine line between being personable and relatable and recounting in detail every trauma you’ve ever endured. If someone told you their entire life story in one essay of a Tinder message, how would you react? You’d probably be a little freaked out, figure there was nothing left to learn about them, and bounce. I’m not saying you should be totally closed off, but if you find yourself wanting to disclose your social security number, maybe take a few — or 100 — steps back.

 

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100+ Flirty Pick-Up Lines for Texting

For some reason, the phone contact details of your crush falls into your hands. Now what?

Do you want to establish a romantic connection? Are you so love-struck that you want to straight off close the gap between you and your crush through text messaging? Well then, this list might just have what you need!

This list is a collection of pick-up lines you can use on your text messages to flirt with your object of attraction. Each line from this list has the power to show whoever you’re interested in that you’re romantically and passionately motivated to make a connection.

Keep in mind that the pick-up lines here are merely ideas, so use them wisely. If the person you’re trying to allure dismisses your advances, respect their decision. Don’t be a jackass. Flirt nicely and have fun.

Cute Messages to Text Your Crush

  • If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cute-cumber.
  • My dog wants you to know that he/she misses you. Come over.
  • I bet you smiled when you saw my name pop up on your phone just now.
  • I envy your footwear. I want to be like them so I can be with you every step of the way.
  • Take a guess. Which emoji did I place next to your name in my phone?
  • Roses are red. Violets are blue. Sugar is sweet…and so are you.
  • Whenever I see you, I feel like a dog always giddy to greet you at the door.
  • I’m sending you hugs and kisses.
  • My phone is in my hands, but I would rather be holding you.
  • I haven’t seen you in forever. Have you been visiting your fellow angels in heaven?
  • When you go to sleep at night, do you dream of new ways to make me like you?
  • Send me your picture so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas.
  • I just accidentally walked into pole because I was thoughtlessly staring and smiling at your text messages.
  • I never believed in love at first sight until I saw your profile picture.
  • My parents told me not to talk to strangers. So, how about we be friends?
  • You’ve been running through my mind all day.
  • You’re always in my 3A.M. thoughts.
  • I hope your day is as nice as my butt.
  • I do not think much. I do not think often. But when I do think, I think of you.
  • If I was a stoplight, I would turn red every time you passed by, just so I could stare at you a little longer.
  • Kiss me and you will see the stars. Love me and I will give them to you.
  • Can you give me your parents’ phone numbers so I can text them and thank them for being able to raise such a wonderful human.
  • It’s always fun to flirt with you over text messages. However, it makes it hard for me to lean in and kiss you.
  • Let’s commit the perfect crime. You steal my heart, and I steal yours.
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Flirty Texts That Never Fail to Impress

  • We don’t really have anything to talk about, but I still want to talk to you. So…”Hi!”
  • Hey, sexy.
  • Just so you know, I’m not flirting with you. I’m just being extra nice to you who is extra attractive.
  • Hey, stop thinking about me. See, you’re doing it right now.
  • Hello, this is me making the first move. Your turn.
  • I admit that you’re on my mind more than just sometimes.
  • Could you stop being attractive? You’re driving me crazy!
  • Just so you know, we’re going on a date tonight.
  • I just realized that you never text first. Do you hate me or are you just playing hard to get?
  • Every moment I spend with you is like being in paradise.
  • I’m wondering how long it’s going to be before you realize that I like you, and admit that you like me back.
  • I don’t know what love potion you made me drink, but every time I think of you, I can’t stop smiling.
  • My lips on your lips would be magical.
  • Good night beautiful/handsome. Sleep well.
  • Hey, stranger. Stop being a stranger.
  • Netflix and chill?
  • What’s new in the wonderful world of you?
  • I was actually going to wait for a day or two before texting you, but I can’t wait that long.
  • Stop sending me mixed signals and start sending me sexy memes.
  • I just saw your new profile picture. Looking hotter than ever, I see.
  • I’m waiting for you at home.
  • I still exist, in case you have forgotten.
  • You already know how much I really like you. So, what are you going to do about it?
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Dirty Pick-Up Lines for the Dauntless

  • I just want you to know that I don’t believe in pick-up lines. So, let’s just skip all that and proceed to hooking up.
  • I’m currently watching a sexy video of girl/guy who looks just like you.
  • I’m a little drunk, a little horny, and all alone.
  • I hope you don’t mind that I’m texting you while naked. Or that I’m imagining you naked.
  • I had a dream about you last night. I’d tell you all about it, but it was too inappropriate.
  • I have a magic wand that is aching to show you a trick.
  • Talk dirty to me.
  • You should come over and do some “we shouldn’t be doing this” kind of thing with me.
  • Do you want to mess up the bed with me tonight?
  • I like your style. I like your class. But most of all, I like your arse.
  • I’m kinda having NSFW thoughts about you right now.
  • I can’t believe how naughty your text messages are. Do you have any more surprises for me?
  • I know you’re busy, but can you add one more thing on your to-do list? Me.
  • Let’s go do the one thing you’ve always wanted to do.
  • Everything would be better we stop with the texting and actually start seeing each other more often. Preferably naked.
  • I can’t believe I’m texting you while I’m peeing.
  • I just got out of the shower. Do want to come over and help me get dirty again?
  • Is it weird that I’m completely naked while texting you right now?
  • You never fail at making me smile and horny. But, oh well, that’s not the point.
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Smooth Talk Your Way Into Anyone’s Heart With These Messages

  • Tell me the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text message from me?
  • Do you miss me yet?
  • In case you’re wondering, I’m still single.
  • You’re so beautiful that I actually forgot that I was supposed to send you a pick-up line.
  • Okay, let’s skip the small talk and go straight to flirting.
  • To know me is to love me. Are you ready to get to know me?
  • You see, I really suck at starting conversations. Do you want to try?
  • Here’s hoping that you find my willingness to text first attractive.
  • Did you just fall in love with me after receiving this text message?
  • I have a big problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
  • Are you free for the rest of your life?
  • You wanna know what the best thing in my life is? It’s the first word of the previous sentence.
  • If you told me that I have a nice body, I might hold it against you.
  • If you told you that you have a nice body, would you hold it against me?
  • Will you be my princess/prince?
  • If you don’t reply in 3 seconds, you’re mine.
  • Not many people can take my breath away. But you don’t even have to exert some effort.
  • Ugh! Today, I have to go to some bring event. Will you come with me to make it fun?
  • Hey, you! Get out of my head! And fall to my arms instead.
  • I’m making the first move by texting you. I hope you make the next move by kissing me.
  • I wanted to ask if I messaged you already before, but I know I would remember someone as articulate as you.
  • I have Netflix on, but no one to snuggle with. Do you think you can help me out?
  • If you want to make a move on me, now is the perfect time. Go for it!
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Clever Pick-Up Lines to Text Your Crush

  • I just made a bet with my brother/sister. He/She said that you’re taken already. I told him/her that you’re mine for the taking. So, who won the bet?
  • I may not be a photographer, but I can picture both you and me together.
  • I could drink a case of you and I’d still be on my feet.
  • How did you survive so long without texting me? I’m a delightful necessity.
  • First, I was playing hard to get. Now, you’re playing hard to forget.
  • I just finished a book I know you would love. You should come over to pick it up.
  • You just won the jackpot! You placed first in my heart. Text me back for the details.
  • Answer this quick! What are the three that I can text you to make you mine?
  • I may run out of text messages for you. I may run out of jokes. I may also run out of battery. But, my heart won’t ever run out of space for you.
  • Do you believe in love at first text, or should I text you again?
  • You are out of my sight, but in my mind.
  • I just got a new phone, and right now, I’m not sure how it works. Can I call you to test it?
  • Your One-Time PIN is 143. For your protection, do not share this code with anyone. Enter this code to confirm your love for me.
  • I like you, so do you like me? Yes or yes?
  • Since you texted me first, I assume that you like me. I like you too!
  • If you want to marry me right now, text YES. If you want to marry me next time, text NO.
  • Now that we’re officially texting one another, I’ve become obsessed with checking my phone. That said, don’t keep me waiting.
  • I wanted to ask you out, but I figured that I’d start by sending you a text message.
  • Hi, my name is Trouble, and I’m looking for my soul mate. Mind if I ask if you have room for a little trouble in your life?
  • I can’t figure out if I should start this conversation with a compliment, a pick-up line, or a simple “hello”. You choose.
  • Do you have any plans for the night? Because I don’t.
  • You know what would be even better than a text back? An invitation to dinner!

 

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10 Brilliant Pick Up Lines That Work On Tinder

They say the first impression is everything. On the Tinder world, it will be your first messages that will speak the most for you. It is that moment that to a great extent will show whether you and the other person are a “match” for real.

Do you believe in love at first swipe?

There are some who do underestimate the role of these messages or just fail to recognize it. However for the majority of us it is just so difficult to master those game-changing lines of online communication.

We feel pressure because we surely want to bring out our best self. Maybe you want them to think of you as confident, friendly, mysterious or funny. The challenge is how can you say so much of yourself within just a few phrases?

What you have to do is to change your view and approach about messaging on Tinder. There are surely different ways you can achieve this, but the following list of Ten Best Tinder Openers Which Work on Tinder compiled will help you get there in no time.

Do you believe in love at first swipe?

If there’s a thing that turns on every girl on this planet is definitely confidence. Girls fall for guys who are enough confident on themselves to express their feelings, opinions and intentions whatever the consequences. This message contains the word love which is related to serious long-term intentions so it will make the girl feel special and loved. Plus it is a question and questions have this potential of making someone thinking over it unintentionally. Last but not least it has a much-needed dose of humor which helps you to appear more funny and attractive.

Really dude, are you a trash because I would like to take you out?

In terms of emotions, most guys tend to be monotonous. This is to say they only prefer a certain range of emotions. Girls on the other side are prone to experience a full spectrum of emotions. They look for guys who can make them feel an emotional rollercoaster. This pickup line does exactly the same thing. At first the girl might get irritated but at an instant she will see your point and want to keep the conversation going on. Again you appear very funny which is a plus for your attractiveness. If her reaction is positive don’t hesitate to ask her for a date.

It seems God has given you everything except my number

Girls adore flirtatious guys but not at the cost of their own pride.They just don’t want to be seen as easy targets. For some girls asking them directly to go on a date might ruin your chances. In such cases, finding another alternative route is the best idea. This is why this pickup line works on Tinder. She will think of you as very committed to achieve your goals but also cautious to respect her.

I have lost my phone number so I was guessing if I can use yours

Similar to the one above, this is one of the very best pickup lines on Tinder that will get you a date. Instead of stating your intentions straight which for some girls might not work as expected getting her number first is a great deal. Think about it: you would give your phone number to somebody unless you like that person or have a feeling there might be a chemistry between you. Communication through phone will help you a lot because it engages another sense: hearing. It is a perfect way to spark an initial reciprocal interest.Once you get her phone number you can spend some time communicating through your phone and as the conversation keeps going you can ask her for a date.

Can I ask you a question? Oh sorry two questions because I already made one.

Funny, polite and bold. This is the impression she will have for you once you send her this message. Questions are a magic tool to make someone curious especially with girls. But the problem is most girls receive tons of messages of guys seeking permission to ask for something. Nobody owes you an answer. The second part of this pickup line will give you the advantage if not for anything else it’s because will make her laugh and girls love to laugh a lot.

I’ve never seen more beautiful eyes than yours. I wonder if they look the same in real life.

Compliment is a typical flirtatious behaviour especially when it’s done at the right time on a proper way. Girls fall easy for compliments because it makes them feel beautiful, desired and confident. She probably hears lots of different compliments but there is hardly any thing else that can move her heart than a poetic, romantic and sexy compliment about her eyes. Because as the saying goes “eyes are a window to one’s spirit”. What’s even good about these words is that establish a sort of invisible addiction so she won’t just skip that message but we’ll keep herself engaged and you can then convince her on a date.

Hey sweety would you like to be my Tinderella?

If you would be able to delve deeper into the mind of your Tinder crush, you would find that there still lives a little Cinderella who dreams of being the starring role on her own fairytale story. A message like this will uncounscily make her wonder if you’re the prince she’s been waiting for and will definitely agree to go on a date with. Give it a shot.

What is your ideal format for a date? Mine is DD/MM/YY.

Expressing your intentions straight is a sign of confidence, openness and sincerity. Girls do appreciate these personality traits and they would not hesitate to go on a date with a guy who is like that. In addition, when all these combine with your unique sense of humour it is almost for sure that you’re on her list of guys who she would definitely have a talk in real life.

I thought angeles belong to paradise but since you’re here, let’s go on a date.

Trust your intuition. If you think she’s kind of a person who believes on first-sight love stories or those played on movies a strong romantic expression will reframe her thought patterns toward you. Pay attention to how this message is formulated. It would have a little different meaning if you would say it like “but since you’re here can we go on a date?”. That’s because her irrational thinking would start making calculations whether you would be a perfect “match” or not. You won’t appear as arrogant because the first part of the sentence is your alibi. It is a way of saying “look, I feel like we’ve been created for each other and I’m decided to make this thing happening”. Ready to love but never to give up, simple as that.

Are you a vegan? Because I would definitely like to meet you?

Just pray she’s not vegan because if otherwise then this pickup line message would make your chances of having a date with date girl disappear. If she’s not then it will create your image of funny and creative guy with whom everyone would like to spend time with. She will feel desired and might try to act like a hard-to-get chick, but a few moments later she will admit she finds you interesting and will eventually accept to go on a date with you.

 

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50-Year-Old Man Reveals The Struggles Of Being A ‘Sugar Daddy’

“She was the most dangerous person I think I ever met.”

Whether you’re on your third failed marriage or you simply never got around to tying the knot, you may find your 50s a romantic rut. Too old for Tinder, too young to forget about dating. All your mates happily (and boringly) hitched.

All hope is not lost, however. We live in a modern world. Anything is possible. You just have to pitch yourself to the right agency. As one man recently revealed to Refinery 29 on Medium, you can have a lot of fun trying. But, as he also pointed out, it’s a lot more challenging than you’d think – especially when the perception is that the one with the money has all the power – which, he claims, is not always the case.

New York-based founder and CEO of a global software company, the man, who chose to remain anonymous, told Refinery 29 journalist Jessica Chou even though his net worth was north of $50 million, it’s been hard to get into conventional dating since his divorce 3.5 years ago because he travels a lot.

“I’m 50 years old but I probably look 38. I have the mentality of someone in their 20s because I just love to have fun. I jump out of planes, you know? I’m just one of those guys.”

He also couldn’t get into conventional dating because: “My schedule just prohibited it. When I dated conventionally, it always followed the same pattern: Meet a girl, get to know them, they like the vibe. Then I start my crazy travel schedule and there’s an awful lot of stress and texting. When are you coming back? Where are you?”

“So I thought okay, what if I financially support someone and when I’m here, I have the company of someone I enjoy. It seemed like the perfect solution,” he told Refinery 29.

Another attraction, he says, was he “thought it was the only way to meet women who have not been tainted by life,” explaining, “I just found that as women and men age, they get more tainted by their experiences. They create within themselves a negative bias as a standard operating procedure.”

“I went on many dates with women in their 40s, and what I found consistent between all of them was they were immediately looking to find out how I was going to hurt them, even from date one.”

So he decided to try and date younger women, recounting his experiences – and struggles – with three of them to Refinery 29. Here’s his experience with each one.

The Upfront One

“The first woman was the upfront woman,” Anonymous Daddy told Refinery 29. “I met her for a drink and she was very open about the fact that as long as there was some chemistry, she would meet with me and sleep with me for money. Unfortunately, that’s not really who I am. I need more of an emotional connection with someone, even though it might sound weird in that environment.”

The Girl Next Door

“The next woman was someone I would call a ‘girl next door.’ She probably shouldn’t be on the website, and she wants an emotional connection, but she needs financial assistance. So I dated her for four to five months,” Anonymous Daddy said. “After two months she said, I don’t want money anymore, I just really enjoy getting to know you. It really told me she wasn’t looking for a long-term monetary benefit, and that you can have a real chemistry-laden relationship with someone.”

Great, right? Wrong. Or at least – it didn’t last. Why? Over the next two months, the age difference was slammed in our face. I remember I went out to brunch with her and her friends, and someone was whispering, you know, ‘Whose dad is that?’ It didn’t really impact me, but I saw the look on her face. When we talked about it later, she said she wasn’t necessarily prepared for that. So we decided to remain friends.”

The Mercenary

“The third woman I call the ‘mercenary,’ and she was the most dangerous person I think I ever met,” Anonymous Daddy said. “She scared the shit out of me. She would say anything to make you think she loved you. She lied about not having a boyfriend, not living with him, got all the money, gifts, trips, and plane tickets, and when her boyfriend finally threw her out, she came crawling to me.”

“She ended up moving in with me for a while, and then I got set her up in an apartment. Once, I got really ill, and I told her what was going on, and I said, hey, look we need to have a real relationship, or this isn’t going to work. And to this day, I haven’t heard back.”

The man then added, “I spent $200,000 while dating on the site, and about 90 percent of that was on the third woman. I bought her a lot of jewelry. I’d buy her a ring, she would lose the ring or say it got stolen, and I’d buy her another ring to replace the ring. Then her rent, it was $3,500, $3,600 (£2,700-£2,800), plus a security deposit. I know. It was sort of like, hey dude, what are you doing?”

 

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